Happy Valentines You Fuck Wad!

So, this day is kinda hard for me as you know already. I made the biggest mistake of my life on Valentine's Day 2001 by marrying Jay and then in 2004 my Dad's memorial happened and Jay acted like the world's biggest asshole. This day is hard and I was determined to have a nice one this year which is why I asked you to take it off so we could do fun family stuff, but NOOOOOOOOOOO! You had to pull a Jay and act like a complete ass. I shouldn't even call it pulling a Jay anymore since you've behaved like a giant man-child throwing a tantrum enough times that I've come to expect this behavior from you. You can disappoint me because my expectations of how you will behave in certain situations has changed. I fully expect that you will be a big giant grey cloud that will loom over every celabratory occasion. I don't expect that you will join in any merriment. You are now also where fun goes to die.

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