Let's Feel Things

Ugh. Tapering off a substance is a fucking emotional Rollercoaster ride. I'm on Day 2 of cutting down my alcohol consumption. I've developed a mild dependence and have definitely been consuming too much alcohol over the past few months. I've been examining myself to try to figure out why I've been over indulging and it's complicated. I'm not overtly trying to escape anything even though I'm not overly satisfied with the state of my relationships. I feel sad and depressed some of the time, and I definitely feel lonely, but I'm afraid to get close to anyone.
 
I really miss being in a sexually satisfying relationship and yet there's no one in my life that I feel sexually attracted to.

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